Over the years I have collected a lot of advices and kept the ones that are quite useful. Here are some simple rules so you can navigate the boring stuff of life and enjoy the less boring parts of it.
I hope that they will help you and that you may add some more to them, pass them along so people you care about will enjoy life with you, because a life in solitary and with no one to share what you know with, is a life not well lived.
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The old has value.
life
If something is old, it will probably be around for quite some time. A book that exists for 100 years will also be around in the next 100 years. This is called the Lindy effect.
Enjoy the journey of life.
life
A lot of times you will enjoy the journey towards a goal more than the actual goal.
Emergency fund.
life
Try to have money aside for at least 3 months of expenses. You never know what might happen.
Minority rule.
work
Watch out for the minority rule. Once you have 10% or more woman at a party you cannot only serve beer. Most men although will drink wine. So you only need one set of glasses if you will serve only wine.
Who to hire #1.
work
When you know what the job is about, hire somebody that is conscientious and conservative.
Find the needs.
relationships
We usually have our focus on analyzing level of wrongness rather than needs. If my partner wants more affection and attention we are internally evaluating this as needy and dependant.
Your employer is keeping a grudge.
work
Every mistake you make when you are working for someone or a cooperation will go on your permanent record which will follow your around. Now imagine a freelancer, he/she can make a mistake but can always try to make up for it and pick up a new client.
Learn from your children.
parenting
Learn from your children as soon as possible, they may have a different angle on stuff than you, which is always helpful.
Prevent the flu.
health
Don't touch your face and wash your hands often. Also keep your phone clean.
You are not only paying taxes to the government.
life
Everything we accomplish has a price attached to it. If you are famous you will pay rumors and gossip tax. If you have more than you need or things that others desire, theft is one possible tax you may have to pay. In light of success you pay taxes in stress and problems.